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TABLE OF CONTENTS

We Have A Date! 5 The Secret to Success and Happiness 6 Which Category Do You Fall Into? 7 Promoters: The Limelight of Everything 8 Controllers: The Power to Control Everything 9 Supporters: At Peace with Everything 10 Analyzers: Constantly Dissecting Everything 11 Setting the Stage 12 How to Date Promoters 13 How to Date Controllers 15 How to Date Supporters 17 How to Date Analyzers 20 Being Everything to Everyone! 22 Unannounced Bonuses 23

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Dating Personalities

“Mastering Dating Skills by Understanding the Way your Date Behaves”

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We Have a Date!

Dear Readers,

Welcome to the Dating Personalities guide! This is a fun-filled, light-hearted guide on how to get a good date by understanding yourself as well as understanding how your date will behave based on his or her personality type!

As you might know, there are many variations of teachings regarding the personality quadrants out there all written by psychologists and experts in the field. This book is not a manual to self-enlightenment.

The information here covers two main points:

  •  Understand which personality quadrant you fall into
  •  Understand how to deal with your date or the person you want to dateWhen I first started dating, I didn’t know how to react to her – the object of my affections. I had no experience because I never went on a date before, and I thought that the way to win over my date’s affections was to please her. It sounded like a fantastic idea, but I made a big mistake:What happened afterwards was one disaster after another because I kept doing the things she didn’t like which I thought would be something which I did like. I learnt that I needed to adjust the way I communicate. Unfortunately, things got so bad that we broke up but the lesson taught me how to deal with people better from then on.Enough about me! Let’s move on to the juicy stuff now.

I saw her through the filter of my own personality quadrant and

I made assumptions that what I like and what I need is what she likes and what

she needs!

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The Secret to Success and Happiness

Different people have different definitions about success and happiness. But the one BIG factor to that lies here: OTHER PEOPLE.

You see, consider the fact that other people are:

  •  Quite similar to others in the ways they are
  •  Like no one else – unique!
  •  More like some people more than the othersMost self-improvement books and research actually show that men and women typically fall into one of four unique groups. As a matter of fact, those people tend to react in a rather predictable way when faced with circumstances and situations.Each of these styles, which I will go into in the later chapter, has its own strengths and weaknesses. Although it is important to realize that no style is superior or inferior to others, we must take note of the fact that the other 75% of the people we encounter reacts differently from us.If your date happens to be from a different quadrant, you have to adapt your communication style to match him or her if you want to please your date.You do not need to go into a personality overhaul if you do not like something about yourself. The key point to remember is people who find success and happiness, are those who are flexible enough to relate to others through modifying their own predominant interpersonal style to meet the needs of others who have a different predominant style.In other words, ‘my way or the highway’ just doesn’t work anymore.In the next chapter, we will play a little game that will give you an idea which personality quadrant you will fall into.

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Which Category Do You Fall Into?

Are you?

PEOPLE ORIENTED or TASK ORIENTED?

In other words, do you feel more comfortable dealing with task, schedules, objects, projects, and results? OR do you feel more comfortable dealing with people, groups and peers?

DOMINANT or EASY-GOING?

Do you find yourself always wanting to be in charge, in the lime-light and finding things to take over? OR are you the more laid-back, relaxing, don’t mind, complying attitude?

NOTE: Don’t Think too much! Just take the 1st answer that pops up in your mind!

IF YOU ARE:

INFORMAL + DOMINANT, YOU have a PROMOTING STYLE

FORMAL + DOMINANT, YOU have a CONTROLLING STYLE

INFORMAL + EASY-GOING, YOU have a SUPPORTING STYLE

FORMAL + EASY-GOING, YOU HAVE an ANALYSING STYLE

STILL CAN’T DECIDE which categories you are in, ASK the person who spends the most time with you and chances are, you belong in one of the 4 styles above.

Now that we have established your typical behavioral pattern, let’s see how we can get you to deal with your date!

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Promoters: The Limelight of Everything

Promoters are people with strong social skills. They are very good at winning over people, crowds, even enemies. They enjoy being in the lime light.

A promoter will always be eager to please others especially if they give them attention for their outgoing, friendly ways. They also enjoy the recognition from other people and generally get involve with things they would excel to be the best in. Quick thrills and fast- paced action motivates them.

When they deal with people, they will generally try and sell themselves to others and even try to win their point of view if it differs. Often, in spite of their outgoing and winning personality, people may perceive them as show-offs, manipulative and like to use other people.

Most of the time, they tend to disregard the feelings of others. They do not know they have offended someone even though they thought it was a really funny joke (normally to gain the attention of others at the expense of the poor friend).

A promoter may also appear to others as overly attention seeking, liars and over exaggerate events or stories to get the attention of others.

They are people who respect strength and will often trample over weaker people. If you are a promoter, you will be:

  •  A person who uses openness to build trust
  •  Likes applause, sincere feedback and being the center of attention
  •  A person who embraces excitement and risks
  •  Responds to personal challenges coming from other people
  •   Tends to save effort
  •  Likes to gain visibility and exposure in the eyes of others
  •  May appear over-committed but under-deliver
  •  Will be influenced by anything that appeals to them emotionally

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Controllers: The Power to Control Everything

Controllers are typically people whom others perceive as a very active, independent, self-confident and results oriented kind of person. He or she may appear to be bossy at times or even disregard other people’s feelings when it comes to getting things done.

They are very forceful and strong willed and may tend to take charge of everything especially when they see a colleague, project partner or subordinate doing something wrong or slowly.

They usually appear rushed and will do anything to save time in the name of efficiency. They also have very high standards and will be seen as very competent in getting the job done but may push people too hard and sometimes even wondering why those people don’t respond to orders or move too slowly.

Controllers also tend to lack patience when dealing with others. They don’t like repeating instructions and solving the same problem over and over again.

A controller’s need for personal success will also become counter productive as they limit their ability to work as a team with others because they will hoard all the task to themselves.

If you are a controller, your will be:

  •   Obsessed with efficiency and saving time
  •   Enjoys beating your opposition to the ground
  •   Measure the value of everything in results
  •   Gets along well with people who will comply with you
  •   Likes to find out what is the solution to getting things done
  •   Does things that gain immediate result
  •   Thrives best when given the freedom to make all the decisions

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Supporters: At Peace with Everything

Supporters are very good friends. They are very casual and likable people that would go all out to please others. They are the peace makers. They tend to minimize conflict with other people.

When it comes to making decisions, they let generally let others make the decisions and will rarely turn down the request. They may sometimes be perceived by others as having no back-bone because of their complying attitude and lack of initiative.

They are also people who do not respond well to challenges and are not usually highly- competitive people. This is because they do not want to hurt the feelings of others when winning or losing in a competitive environment and may even ‘let others win’ to preserve the friendship.

They are people who respond well to orders (especially from controllers). This makes them very easy to supervise but not when it comes to having them do things on their own without supervision. They also tend to lack interest in planning and goal-setting and may need to be more ordered when it comes to doing things.

Sometimes, it is no point asking them for honest or critical advice because they then to sugar coat the feedback in an effort not to hurt anyone.

Finally, when they face disagreement, they tend to let others have their way while building a wall of resentment in themselves until they finally explode (and then apologizing profusely afterwards)

If you are a supporter, you will be:

  •   Leaning towards projects that promise rewards and more friends
  •   Are more inclined to personal welfare than goals
  •   Will do anything to save a relationship
  •   Enjoys people that provide companionship and mutual cooperation
  •   Views attention from friends and loved-ones an utmost priority
  •   Lacking urgency in doing things
  •   Poor time management
  •   Builds trust through acceptance

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Analyzers: Constantly Dissecting Everything

An analyzer is a type of person who uses a methodical problem solving method approach to life. They tend to lean more towards good ideas, complex concepts and intriguing solutions rather than towards feelings. They also like study and analysis of the topics they are interested in.

When it comes to making decisions however, their knowledge does not help them; rather it hinders them from making timely decisions. The term – Too Much Analysis Leads to Paralysis tends to describe them best. They tend to procrastinate too much until they ‘find the best solution’.

Normally when you put to similar analyzers together, they can entertain each other for hours dissecting, hair-splitting ideas and spend the whole day discussing theories and situations and all kinds of things relating to their topic of interest. On the other hand, when it comes to talking to others, they tend to bore others and they wonder why nobody will listen to their great ideas and analysis!

Analyzers are the most well organized people in the world and perhaps the only group who enjoy doing the dishes. Their charts, graphs, statistics, schedules, calendars and diaries are probably the most beautiful pieces of artwork they own.

Analyzers thrive in situations where they are in an advisory role and relate well to others through information. However, they don’t respond well to pressure and will be rendered ineffective when it comes to high-pressure situations.

If you are an Analyzer, you will be:

  •   The king of knowledge and will thrive in situations where information is needed
  •   Measures progress by the number of activities
  •   Has an overly detailed time management style
  •   Builds trust with others through reliability
  •   Always asks the question HOW because it relates to technical things
  •   Will do anything that ensures safety and gains certainty
  •   Is influenced to decide through detailed plans and well charted arrangements

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Setting the Stage

Now that we have a good idea how we behave, we must remember that the categories above apply to different people at various degrees. The descriptions above define generally what those groups of people have in common. A person with the more extreme style will display those characteristics more pronounced.

We must move on to the most important step which is being able to relate to your date in a way that he or she will be attracted to you. In other words, you must relate to her HOT BUTTON.

I will list down how what would be considered a date’s worst nightmare as it related to their personality quadrant. These people will find such a date, a very big turn-off, and will most likely not want to see their date again after the first encounter. As a result, we must pay attention that our advances do not put them in a situation with too much pressure. We will also take a closer look at their responses in high pressure situations.

The majority of the time, people will form their opinions of you during their first impression (most likely after the first date, it is a good indication how it will affect the rest of the relationship).

Remember once again, that 75% of other people are not like us. So it helps to anticipate how they will react to situations and the predictability of their actions will help us to make intelligent guesswork.

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How to Date Promoters

A promoter’s worst idea of a date:

Um, hi, err…I have got our entire outing thoroughly planned out for tonight, ok? First, we will come over to my place where we will be watching documentaries on the developments of the decades, and then we will head over to the restaurant nearby to have a meal. The restaurant has planned out the entire program where the food will all be served according to the order listed down on the menu, and they will be featuring a live band that will play songs that are enjoyed by the majority of the people. After that, maybe we can head over to the library to do some reading. Don’t worry, there’s no pressure for us to rush anywhere or do anything over-exciting. In fact, we won’t bump into anyone at all cause nothing can go wrong on this date… um, so how’s that?

A promoter’s worst nightmare is predictability! They don’t like things to be predictable and boring without any element of excitement or visibility.

If you are an analyzer:

Cultivate your social skills and learn to show more emotion when you talk. Don’t show apathy when relating to others. Be a good listener: promoters LOVE to talk and talk and listen to you sound excited and concerned. It is easy to get to their hearts if you shower them with attention and openness. Don’t give too many details to the promoter. Your constant rambling about theories and ideas will make them turn off their minds if they find you boring or cannot relate to your analyzing style. If you close yourself up too much, the promoter will have little chances of relating to you and you will ruin your chance for a second date.

If you are a controller:

Never ever focus too much on the end result of the date. Learn to loosen up a bit and enjoy the process of dating because promoters love going through the process. If the promoter is talking and you butt in too much when trying to offer your own idea on the way things should be, you are stealing the limelight away from the promoter. Take your time to understand and relate instead of rushing. If you enjoy the freedom of making the decisions during your date, you can always set up the date with lots of surprises and excitement. Promoters respect strength so show them you as a person are up to the challenge, but don’t appear bossy or pushy.

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If you are a supporter:

Supporters are a good match for promoters. They enjoy pleasing their friends and the promoters will dazzle them with their stories. However, there is a tendency to let the promoter walk all over you and if you give in too much, you will develop resentment and it will spoil YOUR idea of a good date. Promoters also like to move from one exciting place to another so don’t spoil their mood by lacking urgency and being too laid-back.

If you are another promoter:

It is fun when two promoters get together and have a raging time together. However, it might not turn out to be the case when one promoter tries to steal the limelight from another. It will become a competition of who tells the better stories or does the more outrageous thing and the date might turn out to become a disaster. Don’t be too quick to jump the gun. Pause, check if everything is ok, or count to 10 if necessary. Also don’t over-commit to your date if you are not ready to be serious. There is a tendency for promoters to promise or commit too much just to be in the limelight.

Warning Signal

If you are doing something wrong at a date, you will see the signs when a promoter reacts to it by talking too much. That is how they will initially react to pressure. If you do not adapt, they will start throwing a tantrum and you will fail miserably in your date.

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How to Date Controllers

A controller’s worst idea of a date:

Hi, darling! It’s so good to see you! Oh, about tonight, don’t worry. You don’t need to do a single thing. I have chosen everything for you. The food I have ordered for our date tonight, it is fixed so you don’t have to decide what you want to order. And our movie for tonight, oh, you are gonna love it. We are gonna watch ‘The Titanic’ again where we can both sit still for HOURS and hold each other’s hands and just contemplate on the LOVE of the main characters. Oh, I just love the way their romance blossoms all the way till the tragic end, *sob*, it is just so touching… thinking about it just makes me wanna cry all over again. Oh, darling, we are so going to enjoy tonight, it’s gonna be so good that we can spend time together and I promise that this is going to be the most romantic date ever that we treasure a lifetime…

A controller’s worst nightmare is not being able to have any control of his surroundings and the might develop a claustrophobic feeling from being smoldered with sentimentalism and doing the same thing over and over again with the same results.

If you are a Supporter:

Do not smolder your date too much. They like to get things done, so don’t take up too much of their time. More important give your date the perception of ACHIEVEMENT by structuring the evening with activities he feels will be productive (yes, even the process of courtship is like list of achievements to him or her). Also give your date the freedom to make many different choices so they will not feel the lack of power in making decisions.

If you are an Analyzer:

When dealing with a controller, do not take too long to make decisions. You may enjoy the process of thinking it over, but the controller is more concerned with getting results. The greatest problem with analyzers is that they perceive activity as busy-ness and think that it is productive, but to the mind of the controller, it is not. Learn to comply with the controller to get to his or her heart. When a controller shares an idea with you, try not to offer your detailed analysis to counter his ‘proposal’. If it is possible, comply with their need to be in authority and structure other ways around it. Getting along with controllers is easy as long as you do not challenge them and help them to save time.

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If you are a promoter:

Promoters can get along well with controllers if they structure their date around tasks that rewards with achievement and results. Controllers like being winners in a competitive challenge. If you are talking halfway, let the controller express their view, agree with them and continue on with your story. Don’t smolder him with too much colorful details. They like things to the point and showing the controller that you have worked out the entire evening without wasting too much of their time will satisfy their obsession with efficiency. They like being in control so before you start talking, ask them what they want to talk about so you can tell them your stories once you find their hot button.

If you are another controller:

Controllers might not like being around another controller. They don’t like the idea of sharing power. Do not struggle with another controller over who is going to settle the bill. They like being the ‘boss’ so let them. Also, behind every tough looking controller is also the need to be appreciated so try and take some time to listen to the feelings behind their words. Learn to give and take also when it comes to making decisions for the evening.

Warning Signal

When you are doing something a controller dislikes, his initial reaction to pressure is by become more controlling. You can see it in his/her face that she wants to take more control of the situation as the voice becomes more and more edgy. You know you have an unsuccessful date when the controller turns into a dictator.

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How to Date Supporters

A supporter’s worst idea of a date:

OK. This is our plan for the date tonight. First, we go to the movies. I have arranged it so that you won’t waste time traveling, lining up and hanging around the area. We are moving fast so once the movie is finish, we will rush to the restaurant where the food will be served quickly. Next, we will head over to the bowling center where there is a competition for teams. Try not to score too low for this one because if we exceed a certain amount of points, they will reward us with a few gifts. Don’t ask why the plans are like this. I have made all the decisions for tonight so let’s get moving now. Oh, don’t worry about your parents’ curfew, we want to pack as much as possible into one night so coming home a few minutes late won’t offend your parents, they are too old-fashioned thinking anyway. Who cares if your dad is waiting for me with a chainsaw??.

A supporter don’t like being rushed from one place to another because they usually lack urgency and like to take things slowly. They are also not used to well structured goals and rigid planning. Don’t put them in situations where they might offend other people.

If you are a controller:

Take things SLOW! They like to have clear options and take the safest route. Take them to places where they can make a lot of new friends and form good relationships. Learn to accept them for who they are and don’t try to find fault with what they are doing although you may be tempted to criticize them when they are moving too slowly or not efficient enough. Most of the time, they are not too concerned with getting things done and they will ask the question WHY a lot because centers around their personal goals. Try not to go around picking a fight with other people also during the date, if the waiter is slow; don’t screw him up because your date will worry about hurting other people’s feelings. Even if you can’t save those few minutes, it will work out to your advantage because your date will like to spend the time with you. Also remember to relate to their feelings because they are more emotional oriented.

If you are a promoter:

It is fine to talk to supporters about all kinds of things. But in the process, you might neglect their feelings because you are too centered on yourself. Do not put them in high- pressure or competitive challenges because what may pump your adrenaline may not be your date’s cup of tea. They enjoy relationships that are safe and comfortable so don’t appear too extreme. They like things to be warm and long lasting so don’t jump from one place to another, it makes them feel insecure. Most important of all, be sensitive to their

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feelings. This takes effort and can be easily overlooked because they won’t tell you that they are hurting.

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If you are an analyzer:

Remember not to bore your date to death. He or she might not tell you it is boring and that is not good. They are also not interested in your detailed planning and structure on how to have a good date because they themselves are not interested in planning. The best way to date a supporter is to show more empathy for what they are feeling rather than giving a systematic approach to solving the problem. Don’t act as if you are too aloof or stuffy because you know so much. Though analyzers tend not to give out too much trust, you must at least appear to be accepting to your date because they need that security as well.

If you are another supporter:

You both can do a good job making each other feel comfortable. Unfortunately, one of you must be assertive and make the decisions or else both will be slow and obliging and might even get into difficult situations because of inaction (such as being late for a movie). The way to win over another supporter is to assert yourself and take actions. Make the decision for your date. Also, remember to shower your date with attention and don’t appear too laid back.

Warning Signal

If you do something that disagrees with them, it is very difficult to tell because they will always give in at first. When the pressure persists, they supporter will tend to pout and sulk letting their discontentment brew deep within their hearts. However, you can sense their discontent through the subtle tone in their voice.

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How to date Analyzers

An Analyzer’s worst idea of a date:

HEY! HOW’S IT GOING, BABY! YO! TONIGHT IS GOING TO BE A BLAST! WE ARE HEADING TO THE HOTTEST CLUB IN TOWN TONIGHT WHERE THERE WILL BE LOUD MUSIC, EXCITEMENT, AND A CHANCE TO LET YOUR HAIR DOWN AND PARTAAAYYYYYYY! THERE’S GONNA BE SO MANY PEOPLE THERE TONIGHT. MAN, I CAN’T WAIT TO GO WILD AND JUMP ON THE TABLE AND TAKE OFF MY SHIRT, SWING IT ALL AROUND IN FRONT OF THE CROWD. DUDE, THERES GONNA BE GAMES THERE WHERE THEY WILL PUT YOU UP ON STAGE AND EVERYONE WILL BE LOOKING AT YOU DO THE CRAZIEST STUNTS. MAN, WHAT CAN BE BETTER THAN TONIGHT, HUH?

I am not saying that analyzers are boring people, but it is very clear that they have little desire for unwanted attention. The worst thing you can do to an analyzer is making him or her lose face!

If you are a promoter:

Don’t kill your date by giving them unwanted attention. They tend to be more shy and less outgoing so don’t put them in a situation where they have to talk to a lot of strangers. Loud music and excitement are ok but just keep the attention away from them and also allow them to wallow in their little corner once in a while. They need the space to think about what is going on and to analyze the situation. They don’t like unpredictable events so give them full detail about what the whole evening is about and they will appreciate it much better.

If you are a controller:

Don’t pressure them into making quick decisions. They prefer situations of limited pressure with unlimited time to make decisions as well as consider escape routes and safe alternatives. Also don’t scold them if they ask too many questions on how is it done or this and that because they gain security by understand the technical aspect to all things. Never ever say things that make them feel embarrassed. They are also not very aggressive people who do things at their own pace. To win the heart of an analyzer, take interest (I mean real, genuine INTEREST) in what their field of specialization is. Ask them to elaborate and relate to their theories and ideas and you will have a friend for life.

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If you are a supporter:

Take time to digest the things analyzers are saying. I know you don’t like to think too much, but if you do think about the things analyzers are saying and ask the right questions, they will be very happy to be around you rather than you just going, “Uh huh, yeah, uh ok…, yup…” Don’t disregard their plannings and well-structured schedules also. They need time do a lot of things also because they judge their productivity by their busy-ness so just tag along and enjoy.

If you are another analyzer:

Learn about the field of expertise or your date’s interest. If the both of you have things in common, you will get along just fine. But if you are not interested in what he or she has to say, do some research about it. Interest is developed as you know more and more about the topic. So as you know more, you can relate more and win over your date. The best way to win over their heart, is to take the initiative and make decisions for them (you can explain the details later). If help them ask other people questions, they will appreciate you as well because they might not like to as others questions for fear of losing face.

Warning Signal

An analyzer’s warning signal is very easy to spot. He or she will fall completely silent. If pressure persists, the analyzer will enter a state of withdrawal and block themselves up for the rest of the date.

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Being Everything to Everyone!

Of course we can’t be everything to everyone. We must also be ourselves or else we will come across ask fake or unnatural. But hey, dating should be a fun-filled activity and I hope the guidelines I have provided in this book can help you with your date.

Remember that there are always different degrees of the 4 quadrants and there are even people who might fall somewhere in the middle of 2 or all 4 of the quadrants. Once you have learnt to communicate well with others, you will have no problems getting a date or pleasing your date.

Have fun and happy dating!

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Foreword Chapter 1:

Mature Dating Basics

Chapter 2:

Be Upfront About What You Want

Chapter 3:

Meet In Safe Places

Chapter 4:

Leave Out The Age Talk

Chapter 5:

Have A Positive Attitude

Chapter 6:

Be Wary Of Senior Dating Sites

Chapter 7:

Don’t Mix Love And Money

Chapter 8:

Don’t Settle Because Of Your Age

Chapter 9:

Learn To Have Fun Again

Chapter 10:

The Benefits Of Great Mature Dates

Wrapping Up

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Foreword

It’s been a long time since you’ve dated and you feel incredibly intimidated by the idea of dating. Ever since your last break up, you’ve felt as if you couldn’t connect to anyone else. Believe it or not, there is someone out there for you, no matter how old you are. You could be in your 40’s and still playing the dating game. Even seniors who are single will go out on dates although it’s a bit rare.

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Chapter 1:

Mature Dating Basics

Synopsis

In order to go out on a proper date, you must know the mature dating basics before going. You don’t want to embarrass yourself or do something that is frowned upon during a date. Dating for older people is much different than a younger person dating. For example, they have higher expectations and know what they want. Older people know how to read some easily by their actions and what they say. This is because they have had plenty experience dating in their past.

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The Basics

Two adults should always be upfront about what they want and this way they can communicate better. If one adult has a different desire in a relationship, it probably won’t work out. For example, they might be looking for a casual relationship and nothing too serious. The other person is looking to get married within a few months and settle a family. This is all too much for the person who just wants a casual relationship. They draw back because they are afraid of getting hurt or sucked into a place where they won’t be able to enjoy the opposite sex.

Most adults know that it is important to meet in safe places, otherwise if something goes wrong – no one would be there to save them. This is very true if you are woman but keep in mind, it can also be dangerous for men as well. If you are participating in online dating, you always need to be extra careful. You should at least know the person’s first and last name before going on a date, a few things about their life, plus their living situation. Meeting up with anyone in a short amount of time is dangerous and you will look desperate. Try to take things slowly, even if you are dating multiple people.

You want to be sure the other person is interested in you. Now, if you are a woman – you don’t have to tell your age. Some woman look very young but are ashamed of their age and don’t want to appear too old. Men don’t have a problem with this but sometimes they may hesitate if the woman is not mature enough for them. Other women enjoy

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dating men that are younger than them because of the sex appeal or they may just like them for their personality. There are plenty of situations that go on in developing relationships.

If you are in your early thirties or forties, please don’t sign up for a senior dating site. These sites are usually reserved for people fifty and up who are looking for someone to spend the rest of their life with. A huge age gap isn’t a good idea and your differences could damage the relationship. However, there are some people who do have gaps in age and get along just fine. Just be wary of senior dating sites. Instead, sign up for regular dating sites that allow users from 18 and up to date. You will find plenty of people who are older since there is no max age. On top of that, most of these sites allow you to look for a person based on the age. Choosing someone close to your age will yield the best results and the two of you will get along just perfectly. People who are close to the same age usually have the same mentality.

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In This Book, You Will Learn:

tick If you can, join a group dating
tick You can always bring your friend along
tick Asking lots of questions to your date & observe the response
tick Terminate meeting with a disrespectful or abusive date
tick Background check your date first
tick And so much more!

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Table Of Contents

Foreword

Chapter 1:

If you can, join a group dating

Chapter 2:

You can always bring your friend along

Chapter 3:

Asking lots of questions to your date & observe the response

Chapter 4:

Terminate meeting with a disrespectful or abusive date

Chapter 5:

Background check your date first

Chapter 6:

Stick to the dating rules and strict moral standards

Chapter 7:

Go on a date only in well-lit public places

Chapter 8:

Do not accept a ride home on the first date

Chapter 9:

Don’t get drunk and never leave your drink unattended

Wrapping Up

 

Foreword

Dating can be a very trying experience and one should look into ways that could make this exercise less stressful and more enjoyable. The idea of group dating can present some very interesting options. Get all the info you need here.

Safety Rules for Dating

Fasten your seat-belt and have a great dating experience

Chapter 1:

If you can, join a group dating

Synopsis

The following are some reason why group dating should be considered for the first few dates before both parties decide to have a go at it as a couple:

The Basics

Nervousness if often the most common element that contributes to the first date experience. The presence of nervousness can present such a mental and physical condition and is so unlike the normal person, that is can cause a virtual train wreck of a date. Having the comforts of being in a group atmosphere may help to ease some of the nervousness and the tension surrounding the date. This is especially so if the individual is familiar with at least a couple of the other people in the group. With the group participation, there are more things to talk about and more things to do and this will create the enjoyment distractions that can put everyone at ease.

The events that usually unfold on this type of dating style will help both parties get to know the each other’s personalities better as the setting usually provide for a more relax setting where most people are not so guarded. Group settings, will allow interaction with others, and this will give the opportunity to each party to observe the other, without seeming too intent or judgmental. Group style dating, is usually done around fun setting such as games and general discussions that can get loud and boisterous and this too will help to shed light on the other party’s character, thoughts, competitive nature, level of hyper activity and many other very enlightening pieces of information.

Chapter 2:

You can always bring your friend along

Synopsis

There are many reasons for this particular option to be exercised when deciding to go on a date. For these reasons, bringing someone along on the date seems to becoming an action that is quite common and for some really necessary.

The following are some of the reasons why most people are choosing to bring someone along for the date as opposed to spending time as simply just a couple:

Friends

One of the primary reasons and perhaps the most common one in the past are for the other person to act as a chaperone. However today, this other person would probably play the role of simply being present to deter or lessen the chances of any possible negativity from taking place. Being able to safely judge a person’s character accurately and be extremely comfortable enough to go on a first date alone with that person is becoming increasingly difficult in today’s weird society. Therefore the precaution of taking someone else along on the date many help to keep the security issues taken care of at a minimal yet definite presence.

Taking another person along on a date, will also help both parties be less nervous and take the intense attention of each other. The other party can also be a welcomed addition to the whole exercise especially if there is nervousness and problems with connecting. Communications during the date may also be easier as there is a third opinion and voice to add to the equation.

For some this would present a pleasing option while for other it may present an annoyance instead. Therefore before bringing the other person on the date, it should be mentioned and agreed upon. If both parties are not open to this sort of arrangement, then the date could take a turn for the worst before either party gets the chance to get to know each other.

Chapter 3:

Asking lots of questions to your date & observe the response

Synopsis

There are many ways to get to know a person better and one of the more effective ways of doing so would be to ask questions and then observe carefully the reactions to these questions and the answers given.

For most people asking questions is the only way they know how to extact information from the other party on a date. This is especially needed if the other party is rather shy and not willing to divulge any information without suitable prompting.

Therefore having a list of possible questions to ask, to ensure the smooth flowing conversation on the date, will help to create a less tense atmosphere.

Ask

Questions are also a great way to help form an opinion of the other person. This opinion is important as it will have some influence over the decision for the second date and other consecutive arrangements. These questions will allow the other party to gauge the answering responses and to observe if they are acceptable to the individual’s own perceptions and ideals in life in general.

If there is an obvious match in many ways, then the relationship would ideally seem to have a future and the next step can be comfortably contemplated and taken. However if the answers seem worrying and incompatible, then a lot of heartache and disappointments can be avoided in the future by not agreeing to a consecutive date.

Asking questions also allows both parties to get to know each other better and this is of course the general reason for the first date. The getting to know stage is very delicate and all caution should be exercised when planning out the questions to ask. While wanting to get to know the other person better is the main intention, being too nosy or aggressive with the questions is not a good idea.

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With this product, and it’s great information on relationships it will walk you, step by step, through the exact process we developed to help people get all the info they need to be a success.
Who Can Use This Book?

– Entrepreneurs

– Internet marketers

– Network marketers

– Life Coaches

– Personal Development Enthusiasts

– Self Improvement Bloggers

– Web Publishers

– Writers and Content Creators

– And Many More!
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tick Top benefits of social networking dating
tick Social networking vs online dating sites
tick How the dating game works in twitter
tick Getting dates using facebook places
tick Find dates through public Facebook events
tick And so much more!

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Table Of Contents

Foreword

Chapter 1:

Top benefits of social networking dating

Chapter 2:

Social networking vs online dating sites

Chapter 3:

How the dating game works in twitter

Chapter 4:

Getting dates using facebook places

Chapter 5:

Find dates through public Facebook events

Chapter 6:

The mobile dating revolution through foursquare

 

Foreword

Busy people, with equally demanding and busy schedules today, almost always is the contributing factor for the lack of social interaction with others due to the lack of time. Therefore there is sometime the need for intervention and this can come in the package of social networking dating. Get all the info you need here.

Social Dating

Finding true love through the power of social networking

Chapter 1:

Top benefits of social networking dating

Synopsis

The following are some benefits that an individual can enjoy if the social networking dating option is taken to widen their current non relationship progressive situation:

The Basics

There are usually no physical boundaries, when it comes to meeting someone over the internet. Because the internet connection are so wide and popularly used it is possible to make a connection with someone as close as down the street or as far away as across the world. Therefore when it comes to internet dating, social networking sites can and usually do feature member from all over the world and while also providing the localized list for those not so adventurous.

For those who are pressed for time and really don’t want to go through the “vetting” stage that would involve the patience of physically having to meet and spend time with a person, this social networking dating option presents a very viable and effective platform. Often the hassle of going on dates can not only be exhausting but also incur a lot of unnecessary cost of which the individual may not have the capacity to cope with.

Social networking sites for dating are also a good way to build up an individual’s confidence levels and there is no real need for physical contact until both parties are ready to initiate the actual contact. This is usually done only after both parties are ready and willing to take the next step. This is an ideal way to limit the possibility of enduring disappointments and ridicule.

Chapter 2:

Social networking vs online dating sites

Synopsis

There are several very glaring differences in these two seemingly similar platforms; however the distinctions mainly lie in the use and purpose of these sites. For now both the social networking sites and the online dating sites present a very viable option to those using these platforms to further their own personal agenda.

The Differences

Examples of social networking sites would include sites such as MySpace, Twitter and Facebook and these ideally provide the individual with access to other people’s postings with the idea of keeping abreast with what in going on in their lives.

Opinions and events are often posted and most people find this sort of connections very fulfilling, enjoyable and interesting. The ability to chat, exchange information, seek opinions and generally just stay connected to a vast amount of people is why most people opt for the social networking sites.

There is no real underlying reason for this connection, and if a romantic liaison is formed then it is considered an added benefit and usually not the original of pressing intention of those participating in the social networking platform.

This is where the similarities start to differ between the sites, as most online dating sites consists of member who are serious in their intentions for signing up at such sites.

These intentions would include the actual exercise of going through the motions of finding and building a relationship with another party, with the eventual intention of making a permanent commitment.

The online dating sites generally provides the avenue for the individual to narrow down the search to a select few and then take the next step to initiate a connection.

The element of privacy is also much more of a consideration when it comes to online dating sites and not a lot of personal information is divulged or featured until connections are made and all parties concerned are ready and willing to divulge more information..

Chapter 3:

How the dating game works in twitter

Synopsis

There are several stipulations that would generally be followed to ensure the dating exercise on the twitter platform stays pleasant and non threatening in any way or form.

Though, this is a comparatively fairly new inclusion into the dating avenue, twitter is fast making an impressive option to explore when it comes to online dating possibilities.

The following are some of the features that should be considered when making the decision to explore this particular style of social networking for the purpose of dating:.

Twitter

The concept of providing lave matcher in less than 140 characters is something that most time restricted individual would be pleased to engage in. this short and often to the point style of communication and alerts is a welcomed introduction. The information placed on the profiles will be sent to the Twitter followers, and those interested can then take the next step themselves and initiate contact.

If there is a private conversation that is designed and intended to stay that way, then the use of direct messaging is encouraged. This is necessary as it would be remembered that all communication done on twitter is privy to everyone else. Thus by using direct messaging the communication is kept private until it is deemed fit to share it with the world.

Building the individual social networking exercise slowly, is also another important feature to remember, as too much activity at the site will then be interpreted as spam and will eventually cause a lot of problems for the users. This sudden influx of Twitter numbers is not advisable and should be avoided at all costs.

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